But I knew, deep down inside of me that if I accepted her assessment, that would be the end of my journey. It would stop there and we would focus on managing the symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder. It would become my identity. And I refused.

From that point on, I was more determined to figure myself out and fix it. I believed, since I wasn’t born with Borderline Personality Disorder, it was something that I could fix. And my journey to self-mastery started.

I started my healing journey at 29yrs old and my mastery journey at 37. As of today, I am 43yrs old. It was not easy but it was worth it. I am much happier and fulfilled person, with a sense of direction and certainty about myself. My anxiety is gone. My depression is gone. I am self-validated, autonomous, and hopeful about myself and the future.

The Self-Mastery Protocol was born from my empathy for other people - seeing their unconscious struggles and believing what I learned will help. I spent the better part of a decade voluntarily helping people, implementing what I’ve learned, and sharing my insights about their personal challenges - all with success - which only encourages me to continue.

If You Only Knew Who I Used To Be…

My breaking point was a psychologist’s visit who prematurely diagnosed me with Borderline Personality Disorder. It was 2019, I was 37yrs old, and completely fed up and tired of my life - making the same unconscious choices, frustrated with why my life was a repeated downward spiral, and feeling like I wasn’t in control of anything - including myself.